Vol-au-vont
You know how you can't resist that plate of vol-au-vonts at a party? Well, this is the bloke equivalent. He sits quietly in the corner - he doesn't need to try because he looks so fit.
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Sure, everyone wants a piece of him because he's so hot, but pulling a bloke like this will give you an ego-boost - and the confidence to do it again.
Get him on your plate
Flirt expert Sam Van Rood Sam says, 'The key to pulling the Vol-au-vont is to make him come to you. He's used to women approaching him, so doesn't need to make the first move. Catch his eye for a moment too long, then look away. And repeat. The first look says "I'm interested", the second is a flashing green light screaming, "Come over". If he throws you a second look back, he's probably interested, but if he doesn't come over after that, move on.'
The Sandwich
Like a sarnie, he's not the best-looking treat on the table but there's just something about him you can't resist. Yes, it's the bloke with the charm, jokes and compliments that has the women flocking.
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Even if you don't fancy him at first, you'll be drawn to his big personality. He's so unpredictable you won't get bored with him, and there'll be non-stop laughs.
Get him on your plate
Sam says, 'Once you've locked him in conversation try this "I want you" move. It might sound cheesy, but it gets results! Touch his arm and look right into his eyes, stop talking for a moment and lean towards him, then look at his lips. Then carry on talking.'
The Peanut
Everyone's had a hand in the peanut bowl. And the man-peanut is no different. He's the bad lad who's been around the block a few times, but he's still irresistible and you want to know if he has a sensitive side.
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Easy prey! The Peanut loves the ladies, so he's receptive to your signals. You've probably heard tales of his bad behaviour, but you need to hear the other side of the story - maybe he's just chosen bunny boilers in the past.
Get him on your plate
'The best place to catch The Peanut's attention is on the dancefloor,' says Sam. 'He's on the lookout, so grab a female friend and start dancing near him. Chuck in a couple of coy glances, and he'll soon be heading in your direction, mistletoe aloft.'
The Pineapple-and-cheese-on-a-stick
Sweet and savoury together? Hmm. There's something unusual about this one. He's fit, but he's not the type you'd usually look twice at. Come on, it's a party - it might be time to sample something new.
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Why not try him? You might just get a taste for something new. If you're a trainer-lover, there's no harm in choosing a smart shoe for a change. Break that 'He's not my type' habit.
Get him on your plate
Sam says, 'If he's not the bloke you'd usually go for, he won't be expecting your attention. So give him some obvious, flirty signs. Before you go out, think about a time when you felt confident and sexy, then run your fingers through your hair. Keep the image in your head and do it five or six times. While you're talking to him, do it again. Your brain will immediately associate this movement with feeling sexy and this will come across in your behaviour.'
The Sausage roll
This is a tricky one. Like the buffet favourite, he's reliable. You're close mates and you've got loads in common, having spent many hours in an almost-boyfriend situation already. If you go there, you risk ruining your friendship. So is he out of bounds?
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You know - and like - what you're getting. And he's likely to put in more effort because he's got so much more to lose if it goes wrong. The toughest thing about making a move on your mate is to get him to recognise you as a potential girlfriend, rather than 'one of the lads'.
How to make a move
'You've got to take control in this situation,' says Sam. 'Gauge his interest by leaning towards him when you're talking. If he steps back he's probably not interested. If the signs are there, just pluck up your courage and really flirt outrageously. It sounds like a million miles from your normal behaviour, but if you don't do it, you'll miss the moment and someone else will. Then how will you feel?'
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